Congratulations!

Congratulations to AK.

Finally attached.

I learnt something from you, A. It takes a lot to surrender yourself in a situation so uncertain for such a long period of time. To be uncertain yet remain the women we should be - letting the guy take control - when many times we probably wanna take a mic and holler to the guy to hurry up and get some courage because we already know he is the choice we will ultimately make, takes a lot of patience, grace and humility.

Patience because the guy is taking so long to decide and work up his courage, when we already know how we feel.

Patience because getting to know someone well enough to decide if you want to eventually be with the person and marry him is not a short-term task.

Grace because allowing the guy to take his time to decide and work up his courage is how a woman chooses to nurture the masculinity in a man.

Humility because you realise you're not the one in control - and willingly so.

Thank you for the lesson.